Hello guys! I feel like I had to write this post as I think someone needs to hear it just like I did too. There comes a point in life that sometimes you can begin to doubt yourself and your abilities to achieve all the great things you want. And that can come in many different forms, believing you're not good enough to be loved, for your dream job, for society and for yourself. You may seek approval from people by going out of your way for them, materialistic things to make you feel better/adequate, pretending to be someone your not but it's never enough.... because that approval needs to come from you. You matter too.

All that your looking for is within you not your relationships, grades, friends etc. It's in you! You are the whole package. I've felt inadequate for many years and I pacified it by sacrificing my own happiness for others and putting myself down and believing other people were 'better'. But I've learnt you can't live your destiny if you keep standing in your own way. Insecurities have a way of burning you out to the point where you don't even know who you are, you feel so empty. You find yourself looking for things that validate your worth and they never last long.

I'm here to tell you that you can stop looking, you don't need to look any further. The very thing you've been looking for has been within you from the moment you were formed. You are a miracle. A beautiful miracle. You are made perfect. You are whole. You are complete. I know it's hard and it's not always easy, your mind may tell you all sorts of things about yourself. But if you want the life you dream of you have to silence those insecurities by replacing them with positivity and confidence in your self. Become your own best friend and cheerleader. 'Who can do anything?' 'I can'.

Just think, how happy have you been by living in the shadows? The longer you hold on to unhealthy ways of thinking the longer you prevent your destiny. It's a battle and it's not gonna be easy to overcome but you are Not Alone! No matter what is stopping you from reaching your potential you Can Overcome. You may feel weak but you are strong, you may cry at night but the sun will always shine, you may be surrounded by negative thoughts but you can choose to see the positive parts of you.

All you have to do is change your mind and your life will change. Stop looking outside for validation instead look inside for acceptance. Don't wait anymore, tell yourself you are good enough Now. Feel the life thats within you, embrace the life you have and everything you've ever wanted will be yours. Work hard and believe you're the best, love yourself more than anyone has ever loved you. Because they'll never be a more beautiful, wonderful, amazing and inspiring person like you ever again! You are the bomb dot com, so start acting like it.

                                                                                             Yolanta x


  1. Loved reading this post!!

    Chione XX

  2. loved this post!! spoke to me. keep up the amazing job girl!


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